[He's searching for honesty and character, which, despite Tony's very obvious personal flaws, he is generally good at picking up on. He might fail himself, but he recognizes good intent in others and appreciates it when he sees it.]

Trust takes time. And I'm aware that it might not even be possible in some cases. I just want us to do the best that we can and work together as much as we can. If that means some people only have a word to offer or would rather stay out of the way, that's fine. But that will go better if we talk about it. Just let each other know.

I don't want things like this to ruin the work people have been putting in toward sharing food and collaborating on figuring out what is going on. You saying that you want to help? That's a good start. Thank you.